My partner found out I was using vibrators, how do I explain it?

To maintain the relationship and not betray love, sometimes woman will secretly buy sex toys to satisfy their desires. At the same time, they keep quiet about it to avoid hit the self-esteem of their partners, their partners are usually not told. However, most woman will panic and depressed when their sex toy is found by partners.

You shouldn’t feel sorry to your partner for using a sex toy

It can be completely disheartening to come out of your sexual experience with a partner feeling confused or let down. The most important thing to remember is that this is extremely common. In fact, it can be easy to forget that good sex with a good partner often takes a little work—and a lot of communication. Sex therapist and psychologist, Dr. Balestrieri emphasized that even in monogamous relationships, it is unlikely that our partner can meet every need we have emotionally, financially, sexually, and so on. Besides, it would be a mistake to expect to give your partner everything they need or for them to give you everything you need. It’s important to talk to your partner early on about what role masturbation plays in their life and to be clear on their desires around the frequency to be sexual. Therefore, being honest and develop a deep conversation with each other is necessary, and tell him or her why you use sex toy and the type of sex toy.But that’s easier said than done, right? I will give you some suggestion which might be helpful to you. When we walk into a new sexual experience with heightened expectations and fantasies about that person, it can lead to an inevitable letdown when the sex is not exactly how you pictured it would be. Dr. Overstreet suggested avoiding this common mistake by talking to your partner before you have sex. “Ask your partner what they define as intimacy, what they like, and what they don’t like,” she advised. Take note of how comfortable they are talking about the subject. How can you expect someone else to give you what you want if you aren’t even sure what you want yourself? Dr. Overstreet reminded us that the self-exploration definitely will help you to find out what you want yourself. Once you get comfortable with yourself through masturbation and self-exploration, you’ll have a much easier time opening up to your partner about what you want, and the sex will inevitably be better. To figure out what types of sex you want, it is necessary to understand your sex needs through sex toys. Getting a new vibrator is essentially like entering a new relationship. We’re learning each other’s quirks and getting to know each other. The following will give more detail about the different vibrators

Table of contents

Rabbit vibrator

Clitoral vibrator

G-spot vibrator

Bullet and egg vibrator

Wearable vibrator

A better communication and sex with your partner

 

Rabbit vibrator

A classic rabbit toy will always be a favourite amongst sex toy users.They’re cute, fun, and they sure do get the job done. They feature a rotating or vibrating head, a vibrating base, and an external clit vibrator for simultaneous internal and external vibration. Rabbit-style vibrators have a slim head for penetration and a smaller head (sometimes literally a rabbit head with ears) to stimulate your clitoris, bringing the blended orgasms for you. 

Clitoral vibrator

Clit vibrators are sex toys that have been designed to stimulate your clitoris with vibrations of varying patterns and intensities.This toy uses air technologies to create a sucking-like sensation that’s intense. Many people say that suction vibrators mimic the sensation of oral sex and for dual penetration and suction action all in one. For couples who have been in married for long time, the pleasure of sex seems to gradually diminish over time. Many couples only have sex once or twice a week, and some couples even have sex for a month or more. “ My partner and I are on year 5 of our relationship and it’s always been a source of frustration and guilt that my participation is done solely for him as I can count on one hand the amount of time in 5 years that I have reached completion together”. A woman who have suffered from five years terrible sexual relationship. However, after receiving and using this device, she finished two back to back O’s in under 20 minutes, then she posted her experience on the Amazon and suggested for any woman who is out there suffering and has tried it all please buy this. This device changed her life in one night and saved her marriage from the slow death of intimacy.

 

G-spot vibrator

Before getting into what exactly this is, it might help to address where your G-spot is located, and why you want to reach it. It's said to be located behind the pubic bone region and is made up of a series of glands and ducts. This spongy patch of tissue also connects to the back of the clitoris, making it a haven of pleasure. The notoriously hard-to-reach erogenous zone is located approximately a few inches deep on the front (or top) wall of the vagina. In order to hit the G-spot, you need a bit of bravery and innovation, which is where the curved shape of a G-spot-specific vibrator comes in. Some G-spot Vibrators are exhausting and rigid, but some of them are soft and versatile. G-spot vibrators feature a curved or hooked head for targeted stimulation.

Bullet and egg vibrator

This the most powerful rose toy with vibrating and sucking functions.The rotating airflow created by the toy will be sucking and tutting the clitoris, so every orgasm will come as fast as possible. The two-in-one tidal suck function and the active friction of the jump egg allow you to enjoy the ultimate climax. It will have every user repeatedly jerk up and down. As for the egg vibrator, it can be inserted into the vagina to stimulate the G-spot or act as a vibrating anal plug. The instant orgasm of double stimulation is sure to make you scream! You can switch either end to tease the clitoris and nipples. In foreplay, it is a great aid to sex. Moreover, it can drink out your orgasm through its soft silicone lips like nectar through a straw, leaving you limp with spent pleasure but in a second ready again for more flower-power delight.

Wearable vibrator

Wearable vibrators are the kind of vibrator that you would insert in your private part, and it stays for the whole day. There is a wide range of wearable vibrators which can be controlled through apps and remote controls.Some wearable vibrators provide only external stimulation. They fit into your underwear or tuck into your labia and vibrate against your clitoris. Some vibrators offer clitoral sucking that mimics oral sex. Wearable vibrators are a good choice for couples, particularly those who spend a lot of time apart. It is also a perfect choice if you’re looking for something that can be operated hands-free. Moreover, it also allows you to experience sexual pleasure anywhere quite.

A better communication and sex with your partner

When using a vibrator during partnered sex, it’s an opportunity to practice sexual communication. Guiding your partner verbally is not only attractive, but will strengthen your connection and create a deeper understanding of what sensations feel good or not. Plus, for those with different mobility levels, vibrators can help you reach orgasm without straining yourself or causing discomfort during solo or partnered sessions. The biggest takeaway here is the significance of communication and the reminder that while many people have unexamined shame around masturbation, it’s a natural and healthy practice that can help improve your relationship with your partner and with yourself. So the next time you “catch” your partner in the act of self-pleasure, don’t jump to any negative conclusions! Instead, used it as an opportunity to start these conversations and embrace the opportunity to boost your sex life.To promote your sex life to the next level or simply save it from feeling stale or routine, vibrators are valuable tools as they allow you to try new sensations. Women's happiness is also important, at least as important as men's happiness. Also, as a female, we also should attach the importance of our orgasm. Our orgasm is really up to ourselves, if the vibrators can help us to obtain it, why we not try it, right?